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There is a difference between slaves and submissives but few, even the the submissives themselves can not detect the subtle difference. As a professional fem domme, theses differences are quite apparent and baffles us when the weak man doesn’t know how to catagorize himself. Because of this I have decided to create this post in case of any confusion for the inferior sex, the order of men.

I want to start by saying that all slaves are submissive but that doesn’t mean that all subs are slaves. A slave gives everything to their mistress (in my case Princess), despite the humiliation and degradation they will complete the order. Slaves do not mind doing things they find taboo or disgusting just so long as a smile is put on their Mistress’s face. Slaves literally live for their Mistress. Submissives have limits and will go far if not further than they would in any other circumstance but have definate boundaries that they will not cross regardless of the order the Mistresses gives them, though in my experience brides work well to get them to go further than they are truly willing to go. Some people still can not get the distinct differences so I will put forth a real life example of a slave vs a subby.

Lets place Chucky and Lou into exhibit. Chucky is a helpless sugar daddy who loves to throw money at me in order to keep me happy and living in the lap of luxury. No matter what I ask him to do for my amusement he will do. I have made Chucky get on cam and dance around like an idiot in women’s clothes while I laughed hysterically. Then I gently tease him and ask sweetly for $50 bucks for my perfect Princess pedicures. He caves while I recant about me and my girlfriends pillow fighting in short shorts while he watches. Though it takes a bit of coaxing, Chucky will do anything for his Princess and enjoys knowing I am amused and laughing. Chucky is a true submissive slave.

Lou on the other hand is a submissive but not a slave. Lou is sissy that longs for the chance to be publically humiliated by a pack of women who treat him like a sissy, then taken in the back to be fucked in the ass by a strap on. If the situation has anything to do with men Lou will back away and if pressed will run. Lou is definately not a slave but is submissive to superior women. Lou does want his Mistress to get some pleasure at his torture and humiliation but its still about his boundaries and comfortability at the end of the day.

To go further with this examination of the differences between submissives and slaves lets explain the mentality between the two. To be professional and good in this line of business and to get the best furfillment out of this, see I not only do a job but love and respect what I do hence why I do it, you must understand the client’s mind set and be able to get inside his head to know what is it he wants and what is it he needs.

A slaves mentality is complete defeat! He feels inferior and needs some one to know that he is defeated by femininity in what ever form it comes in; strap ons, panties, shoes, socks, humiliaton (by a sweet voice), makeup, tight flirty clothes, and a numerous amount of other things that drive men wild. Slaves long for acceptance and will go to an extremity to achieve it. It is even known for slaves to act out and break rules to get attention if they are neglected for any length of time. This behavior is known as acting out. They will try to enrage a Mistress in order to achieve any sort of attention they can as they are on a severe low and need to know they are still remembered. Once acknowledged they quickly repent and return to the life of servitude they are used. Becoming apologetic to stay in their Mistresses good graces. Slaves are the lowly losers we all remember from school, the geeks that looked at the popular girls and longed for attention.

Slaves are a lot like the above but will not go to any extreme to please a Mistress. Instead they set their boundaries and make it well known where they will not go and instead of their servitude as a lifestyle it is more of a fantasy. Their fantasy is easily shattered if pressed beyond their limits and usually the taboo things they are willing to do is not in public but behind closed doors. These guys have seen pornos or read magazines or articles about fetishes and fantasized about them often, though not completely serious about the fetish or being die hard they crave to be emersed in the fiction world they created in their head. These fuckers can be rather hard to understand sometimes as they will confuse the fetish in their head with what it is in reality, for example a foot fetish guy may believe that a true foot fetish slave will try and boss the Mistress around about her feet. Totally rude and crazed. Subs can look and act like just a macho man in public but be a complete bitch behind closed doors. Their fetish is not life style.

On a closing note, most guys I come across are just subs and not slave. A slave is a true treat for any mistress as its so much more fun to mold a slave into what ever you wish!

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Here is the kinky phonesex girl of the day:

I am am about to leave in an hour to go see KORN with my bf and 4 other friends just thought I would tell my bitch thanks for the $$$ for the tickets for me and my bf and 4 friends
I have never seen KORN live before so this is gonna be a great day … Yes I may be drunk when I come home LOL like I am always when I come home from a concert.. my bf dont really drink so he will drive Well I have to finish getting ready still have not thought of what shoes i want to wear its gonna be outside I just hope it dont fucking rain which will piss me off

I would take take pictures but I need a new camera the camera I have is broken. if they bring there camera I’ll take pictures but the pictures will be in my yahoo group not here

I have one on my wishlist that I want

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Princess Amy

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Slave training for my new boy and my new sissy is progressing well.

My new slave boy first: He started out applying for a sex slave position. His dimensions measured up, being 7-1/2 inches hard with a nice fat circumference, but he was very inexperienced. Not sexually, mind you, but inexperienced in doing it right. At 25 years of age, he’s had a lot of sex but not quality sex. It’s been mostly slam-bam, thank you ma’am. You know, the college years! Young stupid girls having sex with young stupid males. He thought foreplay was diddling a woman with his fingers then jumping on top or her and huffing and puffing for five minutes.

Of course, male slaves in training are not permitted sex with Mistress. In fact, they are tested for STDs, then condemned to chastity for 4 months, then tested again. But, first, I have them perform once for me, prior to their testing, with a female wench I know well. I could tell from his performance he was quite inept. He finished quickly and didn’t make her cum. I just shook my head. I told him that I doubted he could become a sex slave, but if he wanted to continue training, I might let him serve in another capacity. He has agreed to stay.

Yesterday, he went in for his first std test, and then I locked him up in his new chastity device. He walked around all day scratching at the sides of the device and walking bowl-legged. Tomorrow, I will tease him a little so he can feel the strangling constraints of the device, and then in a week, I will tease him to the point of bursting inside the restraint. I’ll let you know how he responds.

My new sissy: This sissy is brand new, yet again. Many sissies do not last long in training. This is usually due to being part-time rather than full time. Most do not have the time to commit to regular service or even scheduled service. After they cancel a time or two, they get dismissed or the Mistress loses interest. So, the last sissy has left due to time complications, and a new sissy has stepped in. This new sissy wants to also experience a real-time transformation along with a Mistress transformation.

We’re going to begin with Mistress training first. My new sissy will wear a tampon every day to help feminize his new pussy. He will also wear stocking, high heels, and silk panties. At the end of the week, he will begin shaving from neck to toes, and tucking himself properly with a strong securing of tape. I will, of course, test the security of that tape by teasing him throughout the day. At the end of the second week, he will choose a feminine name which will be his name from now on. As part of the real-time transformation, he will have to file a Change-of-Name paper for his chosen female name. His hormone shots will begin at the end of the eighth week, provided he last that long. Since many change their minds or bow out at about six weeks, I make them wait until eight weeks to go into the real-time bodily transformation. I will enjoy sharing their progress with you.

Mistress Lila